Do you know how to please a man with your hands? And do you know how to make him purr with pleasure under your touch for long minutes?
The Penis Enjoys more than just Bodily Openings
The male treasure loves to dive deep, but it can also be greatly pleased by your hands. And no, we're not talking about the simple back-and-forth motion with the aim of making the man ejaculate as quickly as possible.
We're talking about a gentle technique where the journey is the destination: penis massage. Each of us has our usual little pen of sexual habits where we feel comfortable. We can be satisfied with that for a lifetime, but sometimes it's worth stepping out of that pen and trying something new that expands our horizons. A penis massage is one way to get to know your partner—and yourself—on a deeper level.
What you Need for a Penis Massage
Above all, you need time and privacy, ideally in a warm room with a comfortable bed, a towel to support your partner’s body, and a bottle of high-quality lubricant that glides smoothly and doesn’t dry out.
If pleasant music, an aromatic candle, and seductive lingerie help create a more intimate atmosphere, bring them into play. Proper lighting is also important. You’ll want to see what you're doing during the massage—both you and your partner. Eye contact gives the massage incredible intensity.
Target Locked – Let’s Get to it
A back, neck, or foot massage is amazing. But today, we’re here solely for the intimate zones. Penis, scrotum, perineum, groin – this will be our playground today. We’ll start by warming the lubricant in our palms.
You can use a high-quality silicone-based lube or any good massage oil (as long as you’re not planning to have sex afterward—female intimate areas and latex condoms definitely don’t get along with regular massage oils).
Drizzle the warmed oil over your partner’s penis and testicles – don’t hold back. Place your hands gently and start caressing the area. Slowly glide over the groin toward the perineum and back again. Sooner or later, your partner’s manhood will begin to awaken.
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The Ring Technique
Once the penis is almost erect, gently grip it at the base, give a light squeeze, then release. And repeat. The penis will increase in volume and become even firmer. Now form a ring with your hand using your palm and fingers, place it at the tip of the glans, and slowly slide it down to the base with gentle pressure.
Release your fingers and, at the same time, place your other hand—also formed into a ring—on the glans. Continue seamlessly from one hand to the other. Take your time. The goal isn’t to make your partner climax right away. And if that’s the goal, it should definitely not happen too soon.
Palm and Fingers in Jellyfish Rhythm
Another technique you can use during the massage is a palm-and-finger movement around the glans. Imagine placing your palm on the tip of the glans, fingers pointing downward, and moving as if you were a jellyfish floating through the sea.
Your fingers glide up and down over the glans and shaft in a way that makes the glans press gently into the center of your palm each time. You can also add a slight circular motion, like a corkscrew.
The Hilltop Slide
Place your palm on the underside of the penis, fingers extended upward, and use the pads of your fingers to gently press upward toward the glans. Be careful with the sensitive frenulum!
When you reach the tip, let your hand flip over and slide down the opposite side. Then back up again. Gradually shorten the movement so you’re soon gliding your fingers just back and forth over the glans. From the frenulum, across the tip, to the other edge of the corona. A slippery lubricant will help make this move breathtaking for your partner.
It’s very likely your partner will signal to slow down. Give the glans a rest and move lower again, back toward the base of the penis.
Starting a Fire
Ever seen someone start a fire with a stick? That’s exactly what’s coming next. Take the penis between your two joined palms with fingers extended and begin rubbing. One palm goes forward, the other in the opposite direction, then switch again. And repeat. You won’t start a fire—but you’ll definitely get your partner burning with desire.
Pampering the Testicles
The testicles, tucked inside the scrotum, are very sensitive, so we need to proceed with great care. Gently take them in your hands and lightly tug on the scrotum. Release. And repeat.
You can also softly (!) squeeze each testicle between your thumb and index finger, then run your fingers along the seam of the scrotum back and forth. Your partner will surely let you know whether he enjoys this particular technique.
What’s Hidden beneath the Perineum
The perineum is the sensitive area between the anus and the rectum. With gentle pressure and tapping using the pads of your fingers, you can stimulate the male G-spot externally – the prostate. This gland, about the size of a walnut, surrounds the urethra and is located just beyond the second anal sphincter. Stimulating it can bring incredibly intense pleasure.
If your partner feels comfortable, you can (preferably using a glove and a generous amount of lube) slowly and carefully insert a finger into the anus and stimulate the prostate directly.
Men who have experienced a powerful orgasm from prostate stimulation will tell you that sometimes, prostate massage alone—without any stimulation of the penis or testicles—is enough to bring them to climax. Amazing, right?
Heading for the Finale
Whether you use one of the techniques described above or any from your own repertoire, the goal is to enjoy the massage. Orgasm may or may not happen—and that’s okay. But if it does, the delayed pleasure will result in quite the explosive finale.
And that’s not all. Increasing blood flow to the penis benefits your partner’s overall health. Regular erections and ejaculation positively affect not only sexual vitality but also mental well-being. And prostate massage helps prevent prostate-related issues.
So, penis massages come with a number of benefits that make them well worth incorporating into your love life.
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